Play is a child’s work. It is how they learn. Through play they develop language and learn social skills such as cooperation and problem solving. They also develop self esteem as well as learn how to recognize and regulate their emotions.
In addition to these amazing benefits to play, is the impact it has on the relationship between parent and child. Spending time playing with your child not only fosters their development, it also improves the parent-child relationship. Through play you not only have the power to teach your child skills, but also to teach your child that she is important and you are attune to her.
Here are some specific ways you can do this in play:
* follow your child’s lead (don't take over the play)
* describe your child’s play (like a sports commentator)
* reflect their verbal statements
* avoid questions (this one is a tough one to do!).
Spending even 5-15 minutes of uninterrupted play time with your child using these skills can make a huge impact on your relationship. You may even see an increase in cooperation and a reduction in tantrums. Wouldn’t that be nice?
In addition to these amazing benefits to play, is the impact it has on the relationship between parent and child. Spending time playing with your child not only fosters their development, it also improves the parent-child relationship. Through play you not only have the power to teach your child skills, but also to teach your child that she is important and you are attune to her.
Here are some specific ways you can do this in play:
* follow your child’s lead (don't take over the play)
* describe your child’s play (like a sports commentator)
* reflect their verbal statements
* avoid questions (this one is a tough one to do!).
Spending even 5-15 minutes of uninterrupted play time with your child using these skills can make a huge impact on your relationship. You may even see an increase in cooperation and a reduction in tantrums. Wouldn’t that be nice?
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